Greetings everyone,

I'm JustTwoBrothers and I want to say that I'm proud of all of you for getting to even subscribe to the red pill. Just even getting yourself around something you haven't heard and most likely have heard bad things about is a good sign. There are many paths out there and I think if you're smart about it you'll find a lot of good resources in the sidebar.

Either way, what I wanted to talk to some of you today about is a huge point many of you are getting stuck on. Now, this may just be my own path after having plugged in, but I hope some of you will get something, anything from my little talk. To start, ask yourself why you came here and got started onto a path of newfound masculinity. For me, it was a woman who broke my heart, maybe like many of you. She ended up being unfaithful after about two years, and went on to go ride the carousel predictably and live her life. Of course I may have groveled, may have been so stricken I almost shut down. I then discovered this subreddit, and almost instantly (after becoming the subject of thread here, someone PM'ed me about it and he advised I come and ask some questions in the thread) learned the biggest lesson that changed my life almost instantly:

That she only has power over me if I let her.

Pay attention gents, because this is the biggest lesson you'll never even know was there. It means that as long as I actively involve this person in my life and my happenings, I will have problems. I made the quintessential mistake of putting her on a pedestal, and by proxy, me under her. But it doesn't stop there for me. It stops wherever I want it to. For me, it became women in general: females will not stop my flow, whether it be during my hustle or during my downtime. I'm good looking, harder than woodpecker lips and for me, women are exactly at the bottom of the totem pole if I want to cement my name in this fucking universe. This lesson of disregarding women and pursuing whatever I want freed me, and what I want to do for you guys is bring you the same freedom.

But maybe some of you are thinking "damn JustTwoBrothers, thats a pretty easy lesson fgt". Well fuck you, keep listening. Either way, to me, that lesson was what eventually became my living philosophy. It told me why my ex-girlfriend who tripped and fell on a dick was so attracted to me in the first place, it told me why Clint Eastwood made women wet, it told me why Jay-Z has ninety nine problems and why a bitch is exactly zero of those muthafucking problems. You guys talk all day about what isn't and is an alpha male, why you are or aren't one, etc. I'll tell you the litmus test for whether you're an alpha male or not:

Do you put women on a pedastal, attention or otherwise?

Do you give a fuck what people think?

Its that goddamn simple. Ask a man how important women are to him and I'll tell you what kind of fucking man he is. Some of you wonder what an alpha male exactly is...He's Harry Calahan, he's John Rambo. He's a man with a vision, and he doesn't give a fuck what you or anyone thinks about it. And when it comes to women, they can hop on for the ride or they can get the fuck out of the way. For fucks sake, there's so many threads here on how to attract women. I pull a share amount of tail, and I commit about 2% of my time to women precisely because I'm not paying them any mind. They see me living an awesome life and shrugging off the crab mutherfuckers trying to drag me down, and then they dip their foot in my pool (letting me dip something more should I choose to). But thats it gents, thats the secret: do you homie. And do it while making you #1.

You may be 19, you may be 22, you may be 30. But if all you're dedicating this amazing life you're given to fucking women and wondering if you're alpha enough, you're missing the point and you aren't ready for women anyway.