I went out with a girl yesterday in which I know that I have hamster spinning in regards to what it is that I do in my free-time; I keep things very vague with her and she would explicitly tell me how she wants to know what I was doing, where I was, etc

In regards to keeping myself mysterious, where should I draw the line on telling her/anyone what I’m up-to but at the same time, not revealing everything that I do? On a personal level, I don’t want people to know what I’m doing most times & that comes with the added benefit of being mysterious

Also, I’ve heard her say that she can’t have a conversation with me because of how vague I am in regards to not telling her what I’m up to— She said something like “I would ask him the most simplest questions and he doesn’t answer them” in which I would just laugh/shrug it off

For example, she would ask what I was up to this weekend in which I would say something like “I did somethings— I went out, met some people, etc. What about you?”— I keep her talking via my questions and what not

I understand that it is advocated to keep someone speaking, but I’m curious as to where to draw the line on giving them playful answers in regards to the questions they ask and informing them about what you do in your free time

Also, at the end of our time together, she thanked me, said she had fun, etc in which I replied to something she said and I could see her nerves on her in regards to what I said, but not in a bad way— When she said she had a good time, etc, I didn’t schedule or infer for something to be scheduled for the future in which I believe that this is what she wanted; did I miss this clue here?