I’ll try to make this short and simple. Talking to a girl I see everyday. Finally got to texting her on a dating app randomly. I have 4 dates lined up but I’ve secretly wanted to date this one for a long time, but I had an ltr. She always saw us together.

We hit it off chatting. I fucked up because work is intensifying and stressful. She asked what I do and i just said, I work in finance you? She said, I work in psychology. Stopped talking to me. I said I happy 4th nothing back.

Saw her today and she looked away really quick, I could tell she had a ton of anxiety. I don’t know if she’s playing games but I’m not stepping out of my frame. I didn’t bring it up, just said hi, what’s up? She said going to get my hair done, I just kept walking, and said, right on very nonchalant as I was actually texting another girl and kept walking not allowing dialogue.

Now I’m ready to next her if she shows no interest but is it beta or alpha to call her out next time I see her in a funny way, because at the end of the day I want my beta brain gone on this shit. I can’t stop the feels but I can recognize them and move on.

So to game her, do I next her and just be friendly but cold because she deserves 0 attention right now. Do you call her out and do the above in a funny way?

I now recognize when girls drive me crazy, because I want to just eat her ass for an hour and make her an ltr but I also need to focus on abundance and get rid of this weak fucking mindset.

Personally I’m good at reading people and this is leaning 50/50 or she just started fucking another chad while we were talking. I don’t really need to know wh just what you guys think about me keeping frame