So I live in Jersey and have a great work/life balance and I’ve been really focused on work and the gym for the past 2 years. But that’s it. I don’t really have a life outside of that.

I do play basketball with my friends on weekends and we hangout throughout the week and stuff but they are also getting busy with their married lives.

I’m not into drinking (been sober since I was born) and I’m not really amazing at anything other than my work, but I can hold my own when it comes to basketball. Other than joining a local league or club, what can I do to gain a better circle of friends and have opportunities to interact with more women.