Hey guys, I've been reading TRP for a few months, I've learned a lot and am thankful for the knowledge some of you share here. With that being said, I'd love to hear your thoughts on this situation.

So I met this girl on vacation in Cuba a few years ago, she was nice, smart, rich and her sister & family seemed to like me as well. Let's call her "A". She obviously took a liking to me, however at the time i didn't find her very attractive. I spent a lot of time with her and her sister on the trip however, as making friends on vacation is a fun thing to do, and a good way to practice social skills/picking up girls when there's almost zero chance of ever seeing them again. She lives like 4-5 hours away from me, for some context.

So flash forward to last week, I'm swiping through Tinder, and I come across A. I swipe right, and funny enough we end up connecting. She was only in my city for a girl's weekend with her friends, so we didn't end up meeting up, however I couldn't help but notice that she got a LOT hotter. I know this sub talks about not putting girls on pedestals (I agree) however I'm talking like an improvement from a 5.5 to an 8 or 8.5 at least.

So we get talking, catch up etc, and then the flirting begins. She starts telling me about how "I used to have the biggest crush on you on that trip" and "You should come visit me". In response i made a joke about her having permission to sit on my face when she sees me, which she responded to very favorably. Keep in mind, I'm a 4-5 hour drive away (although i could get there by flying or train no problem - I have the money). In general I wouldn't ever travel long distance for a girl (in fact usually if she's not immediately close I'll just say fuck it) however something about this time makes me intrigued.

So my questions for you all are, would spending a bunch of money travelling out of town to see a girl be considered a bluepilled or "Billy Beta" move, or is there no big issue? Also, have you ever had a situation similar to this arise? What happened?