My dad got a better job and because of that I had to move basically across the country. I had a considerable amount of awesome friends and a girlfriend that was a unicorn as far as I was concerned. I understand that shes probably wasn't a unicorn but as far as I was concerned she gave me attention, companionship and always was asking to connect on a deeper level aka sex. The easiest part was honestly leaving her because I know girls can be replaced and if I increase my smv I can upgrade. The part that really hurt was the fact that I left my bros. These guys were exactly like me and we all had the same hobbies. We always had each others backs and they always respected me and I in turn respected them. Now that I am 24 hour drive away from them I realize I'll be lucky to see them a few times a year but I've accepted the fact that they no longer will be my primary friends. I now have a part time job working no more than 25 hours of work and after that I literally have nothing to do. I am a huge believer in not wasting time because I realize I'll be dead in about 50 years and I've already been living for 18, but I'm in a new environment and don't know what to do. I spend 1.5 hours lifting everyday no exceptions but after that I usually just read or shoot hoops or listen to music until work.Since I will be going to college as a freshemen where everyone is brand new should I just work on my smv like crazy over these next four months and not worry about friendships and girls? Should I start going to malls in this foreign but pretty big city? Should I start asking random guys at the mall if they want to be my friend (jk haha)? If I should just work on my smv and forget about people untiil college, what are ways to increase smv physically,mentally,spiritually and emotionally besides lifting, cold showers and no fap? I know this is a long post but a short reply would be much appreciated. Thanks. TL;DR-Moved across country and left behind everything. Will be going to college in 4 months but what now?