I have a problem with the so called good girl games. For example, I met a woman who I really liked but she was too busy to see me until a week later on a Monday. When I questioned how with that schedule could possibly lead to a real relationship she said "if you can't respect my schedule bla bla bla maybe its not gonna work." I said something trying not to sound needy but I probably did and poof she is gone.

I had a similar situation with another woman who had 2 drinks with me, then wanted me to lock up the coming Sat night with her so I did. Then at the last minute she says something came up and she cant make it. Now I know that means she is going out with another guy instead of me I was a placeholder so I told her she was full of shit and went to fuck my placeholder. But in reality I really wanted to see her again and it probably came across.

Typically I bed women on date one or two then if they are decent I usually have a relationship with them until they start nesting or making comments like "Is this what you did with your ex wife?" that's when I know its time to give them the boot.

Anyway as bad as it sounds in both cases these women were better quality then I usually end up with and I think I need to readjust some things or end up like Mike from swingers with higher quality smv women. I detest being strung along but think maybe I am too aggressive with them like I am with the sluts and it turns them off. But its hard cause some of them like that too ugh its just confusing.

I get that I am a plate they don't want to spin. I work very hard on my appearance lift, tan, dress well and I am successful etc. I have been told I am a 7 by almost every woman I have ever dated. These girls agree to go out again but then are lazy to respond and shit testing which I hate So how can I better handle these types?