Girls I ask out agree and then flake, am I doing something wrong?

abdada · 2018-01-31T14:17:08+00:00

Women flake, it's normal, keep asking out other girls and don't sweat it.

Tail comes in waves, too. I've been hard NO'd 30 times in a row then had 10 great individual dates in a row.

Keep initiating, keep closing.

blister333 · 2018-01-31T15:16:38+00:00

I’ve had girls give me strong IOI’s and then flake. Then I’ve had girls who didn’t seem very interested at all, hook up. Actions matter and not their words. If their buying temp is really hot though, it’s a done deal.

The only thing you can do is look at your behavior and ask, is this a common pattern? If you would’ve said this happened after 100 girls, then yes. Anything less and there just isn’t enough data to draw conclusions.

If I told you for the rest of your life, you’re going to sleep with 5 out of every 100 girls you talk to, would you be worried about five flakes or would go talk to more girls?

[deleted] · 2018-01-31T14:59:41+00:00

Because girls these days have too much stimuli and options. So a girl showed you interest at the begining? You were fun. Women will use you as a source of entertainment and validation. It's the brutal truth. They even like flaking and all of the emotions involved.

Better to know now then 2 dates in after she's extracted free meals and drinks.

Title	Girls I ask out agree and then flake, am I doing something wrong?
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Date	January 31, 2018 2:06 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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