Response to this?

Conor_Niggregor · 2018-01-07T08:45:13+00:00

i feel like, i'm constantly having to give the same answer over and over again...

anyways, soft next her for a week. if she contacts u within that week, u can text her back when the week is up saying "i was busy". Don't get swept away in a text or phone conversation. If she texts you, invite her to come to ur place and cook dinner with you. If she can't make the time u suggest and doesn't suggest a different time, go silent. when she tries to contact u again, repeat, invite her to come over and cook dinner with u. if she agrees to the date and flakes, go Swayzee on that hoe (see: Ghost starring Patrick Swayzee)

SoakMyBigCork · 2018-01-07T16:52:27+00:00

Assuming we're getting the whole story, am I wrong in questioning why these guys are so quick to pull the eject handle for one infraction? OK so she flaked on one date. Have her over to your place and tell her she has to make it up to you. If she flakes again then maybe game over.

I had to drop my favorite plate for nearly this same issue. She kept me waiting on a date and I left. She earned a soft next. I let her back in and she did it again. She was put on life support - she's not dead and can be brought back if she straightens up. The next time she contacted me she tried to flip it on me and wanted to know why bailed on her. I pulled the plug and she's gone. Point is I gave her a couple of chances to stop the silliness before ejecting. Maybe I'm too soft still?

Title	Response to this?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	January 7, 2018 8:05 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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