I'm in my 40s, spent a good deal of my 20s and 30s either orbiting (w/o stepping up and making a move) or in LTRs. I won't lie. The LTRs were pretty good. But I'm done with the LTRs. I'm barely interested in dating or SMV (let alone sex and the games to get there) at this point. Mostly, I just want to focus on myself, pursue my own hobbies, and generally live in a way where I don't DGAF about what other people think. Is this valid? And what does it make me on the Chad/redpill/bluepill/Beta scale?