What would happen if a guy in his 30s looked good on paper but did no cold approaches or bother with online dating?

[deleted] · 2017-08-27T02:49:31+00:00

New name. Same shit question day in and day out.

Fuck_You_Pay_moi · 2017-08-26T23:33:50+00:00

If you don't have a social circle and don't ever approach anyone what do you expect to change? It's like a wolf waiting for a deer to just come and die next to it... you want change then put the work in

[deleted] · 2017-08-27T00:49:45+00:00

I used to have this belief for the longest time.

Being tall and attractive I would tell myself "I don't need to approach girls, girls will approach me.", and sometimes that would happen which would then validate my (inferior) way of thinking.

The real magic happens when you learn to approach and converse. Then you can be pulling girls like it's nothing.

Title	What would happen if a guy in his 30s looked good on paper but did no cold approaches or bother with online dating?
Author	branlws
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	August 26, 2017 11:28 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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