Cant tell if i played this right or pushed too hard too quick?

Gotterdammerung1488 · 2017-08-08T16:25:02+00:00

Ghost this stupid bitch. If she was interested, she would have chowed down on your privates like a Holocaust survivor at a Szechuan buffet days ago. She was looking for a beta orbiter.

CookiezAYYYYY · 2017-08-08T16:25:16+00:00

Don't text her again unless she starts up a new subject on her own. ANYTHING you text back atm will have you looking like ur pathetically trying to change your image away from some social retard.

Which is what you did. Your goal should be to accept that you looked like a complete dumbass then seem like you don't care that you did afterwards.

vandaalen · 2017-08-08T16:29:52+00:00

this is why any form of text convos only HURT you... had you just text for logistics, like is always preached around here, you could have said "ok come over"... then escalated when she was there. instead, you talked yourself right out of hangout. definite fail.

logistics only.... any text convos are for relationships, when they want a little comfort through out the day, even then, until you have been seeing each other for a lengthy time, should be kept minimal.

if you were left on read.... you should NOT reach out. if she reaches out in the next week, try to escalate again to get her to go out/come over. (logistics). if you don't hear from her for 2 weeks, try one more time yourself, start off fresh, but keep the convo moving quickly to get her out on a date. if she denies, then you know its over.

remember, women are like cats, you have to let them roam and give them time to 'miss you' in a sense. if you are patient and not humping her leg by being needy, you will have better results. if she isn't reaching out to you at all, this gives you a way to evaluate her interest in you. do you really want to hang out with a girl who says no to everything you say and then leaves you on read and cant say hi on her own will?............

Popeman79 · 2017-08-08T16:40:37+00:00

Your messages are bad.

i only cuddle naked

She says why so late, i tell her to sleepover

no cuddles, no sleepover...zzzzz

First you're not helping her. She needs plausible deniability (not feeling like a slut), and also she doesn't know if she will fuck you. By making sexual innuendos by texts you are asking her to validate that she's gonna come to your house to fuck you. She doesn't know that yet. She only knows she fancies you in some way, will come to your house, and then see if she feels like fucking you. It's your job to make it happen.

By sending those messages you are forcing her to make a decision ahead of time -and that decision is always gonna be 'no'.

So even if sex is probably on the table, you cannot state it clearly the first time. Once you've fucked a couple of time, and she knows she's comfortable in bed, you can throw sexual innuendo all around.

Title	Cant tell if i played this right or pushed too hard too quick?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	August 8, 2017 4:22 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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