I workout, dress well, etc. But, at the end of the day im likely not conventionally attractive...at all. This means that i do have some success with women, but ive never been able to succeed online or get any matches by any decent women...ever

So, what this does is two things.

  1. since i get all my dates via approaches, this is very dependent on how often i go out. I am saving money the next few months, so likely wont go out often, creating only a few chances to meet women while out and thus when i do....

  2. when i do meet women in these circumstances, i try to force it to work and take the rejection hard EVEN when i didnt think it was a fit either, just because i know i wont have many options the next few months. Like im fine when i get rejected after the first date, but tend the take rejections after the 3rd plus date super bad.

  3. I also tend to fall into a pattern of blaming myself for things not working out, evven when its the girl who was acting poorly. Mostly because i feel like she has ton of options and i have none, i should of done xyz so she wouldnt of done that

How do you deal with this?