Hi guys,

So yesterday was my first time going clubbing since discovering TRP. I decided to not get shit-faced, just have a fun time and see all of this in action. Which has led me to some questions. If anything I understood is fundamentally wrong, I'd like some clarification.

My first observation is that girls are either out there to get some or they just want to be left alone. Especially girls out with their gang of friends. Now, I don't know if this is because of the approaches I observed, but its sort of conflicting some of the things I read about how girls want to be opened? I don't know if this is just a confidence-booster idea or the real deal.

The second thing I noticed is that everything is soooo fucking easy when your having fun. Just killing it on the dance floor having a good time, it's so easy to join in with other people dancing. We gave this guy in a wheelchair a blast.

My third observation is that approaching in a club environment seems pointless. All the music, people... it just complicates everything. Not just that, but girls seem to be on the defensive. I remember reading a post on the main sub about how trying these venues for game is shit.

Which leads me to a question about approaching in clubs. I was dancing with my friends and I found myself back-to-back with my oneitis. I didn't approach, I didn't even turn around. I was having fun and just didn't see a reason to. Everyone I saw was just going up to girls and trying to dance with them. But they gave off the vibe that they're hunting for pussy and got shot down immediately. Should I just be having fun and then ask any girls around me to dance? I realize that clubs are shit for game but it's the only place where everyone my age (18) is going to be hanging out this summer.