Can somebody here help me figure out my fucking problem? Are some guys just doomed to be Beta Bux?

mcr00sterdota · 2017-05-19T07:49:36+00:00

You'll only become a BB if you let yourself become one. Don't pay for other people's (especially women) stuff.

sirlancer · 2017-05-19T08:11:54+00:00

Here's the facts.

High school is small time. Consider it the peewee league of hooking up with chicks.

I may be wrong but you gave no real context as to what your life is like besides the women you've been with...So I'm just gonna assume you're like the majority.

You used to live in a modestly sized town where the biggest social events were when someones parents went out of town and left them an open house. Get girls over. Everyones drinking for the first time. It's fun. It's innocent. It's oh so easy.

Fast forward to college and it's like leaving the minors for the show. Thousands of new guys. Thousands of new girls. It's a god damn feeding frenzy. Girls meet older guys. Established upper classmen. Who have connections to a fun social scene. Some guys start joining frats and shit to acquire a bigger piece of the "social pie" if you will.

a.k.a Banding together their parents money to throw massive parties and accumulate the most women.

On top of this added competition you also will probably notice that girls start developing standards. It sucks I know. They want the guys who have the dough and the jawlines and shit. It's up to you to sack up and stop wining and dining chicks and start just going to bars with your boys and socializing. Just be a dude...man. Chicks dig dudes who can just casually get smashed as fuck in a nice button down whisper some sweet nothings and pay for their uber.

It's college man. Just because you might've struck out a few times doesn't mean you're lost. It just means you may have to lower your "high school" standards a bit while you get back in the new, college level, saddle.

You have to understand that every guy at your school is low key hustling for "dat ass"

It's the greatest game. It's happening in your classes. At your schools sporting events. Even in your schools fucking math club. Men are spitting game. Women are eating it up.

My final advice to you, and your best bet for really locking down multiple girls to plate is to meet some socially minded gentlemen who can handle their liquor, meet some girls in class or on campus by talking to them (lmao), and host a pregame for the bars with them at one of your houses/apartments/dormrooms.

Girls just wanna have fun man. Especially in college. Now go give it to them you beautiful disaster.

Title	Can somebody here help me figure out my fucking problem? Are some guys just doomed to be Beta Bux?
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Comments	4
Date	May 19, 2017 7:27 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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