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[–]askmrcia1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Hey, I'm in a situation where I've gone on three dates with a chick. I know I'm a faggot should have banged her the first night.
Hey,
I'm in a situation where I've gone on three dates with a chick. I know I'm a faggot should have banged her the first night.
Lol!!!!!!
Should I text her and ask her what she thinks of me and if we'll go further etc. ?
I say no. But it's up to you. The reason I say no is because women will tell you anything and not mean it. I mean she may actually say "you're a decent guy and I like having fun with you" while talking and dating three other men. So where I'm getting at is, you won't gain much from asking her.
You're leaving soon, so next time have her meet you at your place. You can say "meet me at my place and we can carpool somewhere together." Or "pregame at your place."
Just don't plan on actually leaving your place. That's what I'd do. Good luck
[–]Esteryu points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Thing for me is logistics are shit. She works Saturday evenings. So that rules out Fridays. If I ask her over during the week it's kinda shit because the metros stop at 12. I know straight away the anti-slut defence will be up, have to go before 11:30. Also my apartment is shit. Nothing to do it in.
I literally told her I don't like texting so she kinda expects me to plan the date.
My thinking was I send her a text Late Tuesday evening, so she can't forward it into her group chat and basically ask her. I have read receipts on the messages. If she takes ages I'll take it as a no regardless of what she replies.
[–]askmrcia2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea sounds like a better plan.
She works Saturday evenings. So that rules out Fridays.
That's an excuse to be honest. If she really likes you she would see you. I'm sure she would have no issues going out with her girl friends on a Friday night knowing she has to work in the morning. Hell we all do it.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like you are cockblocking yourself. Just have her over at 8 o'clock with a bottle of wine on the weekday.
Stop making your life so difficult.
[–]TehJimmyy1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Any advice apart from not being a faggot will help.
Sure thing , read the sidebar.
Mans are the gatekeepers of commitment and women of sex. So you are asking if as a gatekeeper, you shoud let a stranger do the gatekeeping for you .
You are moving in 3 months . I should be more ready / worried about that. In the meantime you can fuck her good before you leave.
[–]1oldredder0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
never. This is in-person only
If I do it in person it and she says no it's fucking really awkward.
It's not. In text it makes you look like a child or a coward
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