Hey guys, I wanna take my approaches to the next level, both in terms of quality & quantity.

As of right now, my current situation is that I almost never really make the time to approach with my current schedule. Most of the time, I'm either lifting, reading TRP, writing, or studying/doing assignments; even when I'm on the bus/subway to school, I'm meditating/updating my daily logs. I could handle this if it weren't for the fact that the VAST majority of girls I see, I don't consider hot. So on my current schedule, I never really get the chance to approach.

Another problem with my situation is that when I do approach, it's usually in class or on the subway/bus, so I don't really escalate; usually, I just get her name, make friendly conversation, & that's it. Again, most of the girls I meet are hardly attractive, let alone hot, so that's why I can't really escalate; I don't want to.

I'm kind of scared to do really ballsy shit (e.g. Sit next to the hottest girl in class/on the subway, flirt with her, & get her number/a date) for fear of coming off as ''too obvious,'' because from my experience, if a girl senses you're into her (which they're really good at), she loses interest immediately.

So, I have a few questions:

  1. Where & how can I meet more hot girls? Do I actually have to center my life around it like the RSD/PUA guys, or can I make it work with certain hacks like sitting next to the hottest girl I can find every time I go to class/get on the subway?

  2. If I can make it work with the hacks, how do I not make it look too obvious/weird? Or should I just stop worrying & do it anyway?

  3. How do I get over ''escalation anxiety''? How do I escalate in environments like the classroom, the subway, etc. without coming off as creepy?