I have a very limited view of life after college, like I am either supposed to die lonely or get married. Anyone else feeling just lost?

throwawayred521 · 2016-12-20T02:54:26+00:00

It's part of the BP programming. "Because your a mature man now and you have to get married. Find a nice (insert you age here) and don't judge her about her past and 3 kids from different men. Be a man and be her walking ATM."

Assuming your in you 30's and in shape, your in your prime as a man, you have a place to stay, some cash, a vehicle, a good body and style. What 20 something broad wouldn't snatch you up? Just get out there and do what you've always wanted to do.

AFCstills · 2016-12-20T09:18:27+00:00

As much as you fucking piss me off asking that same damn question over and over, i feel that this questions means you've turned the corner.

Yes, i feel exactly the same.

"a tough 40 hr work week (usually more) grind with weekends spent resting and you just do this for years. Occasionally you get laid and maybe you chat up an old friend but that is like it. Like all the excitement, fun, and that sort of stuff was supposed to be had in college and that's it."

That is it. In a nutshell. Except there are a few things you can do differently because of this realization you have had.

The system wants fat, weak, docile, tv watching worker drones that pump out new generations of fat, weak, docile, tv watching worker drones in order to keep ticking over. By choosing or not being chosen to be one is a massive advantage.

As throwawayred521 has said, "Assuming your in you 30's and in shape, your in your prime as a man, you have a place to stay, some cash, a vehicle, a good body and style. What 20 something broad wouldn't snatch you up?"

Nearly every one of my friends has gotten married or had a kid to a harpy and what has happened is slowly dawning on them.

They fucked up.

So there's no real friendship group any more. You are now the leader of your new group of one.

You have to make the decisions. You're going to need new recruits for your new gang. You need to meet the other guys out their slaying chicks. Try a sports bar. Say you're new in town for work. or whatever.

You are going to have to learn how to go out on your own. Alcohol helps. If you can hold your shit when you're drinking, that is. Nobody likes an out of control violent drunk. Nobody. And a hangover at work on a Monday morning is the epitome of shit!

You'll find the same people in the same places if you go back enough and become a semi-regular at the places you like to hang out. And if you manage not to make a dick of yourself, you'll make some new friends. You better have your new TRP attitude on all the time because it can be easy for people to slip back into being everyone else' bitch when they get shit-tested. Don't be a total arrogant asshole at the same time.

The girls will make it known when you're doing it right.

Over a period of time, you'll meet a lot. It's like compound interest. Meet one girl and you'll likely meet three more of her female friends. And their friends. And on and on goes the carousel.

Except this time, it's your cock carousel they are riding.

You sacrificed your fun in college to study and get a good paying career. Now most of the college party crew have to sacrifice to catch up to where you are in your career because they didn't take college seriously enough and have racked up 50-100k of debt and can't get a job in the field they studied because of poor choices when they were younger.. And will probably be behind you forever with no chance of catching up. Like compound interest again.

You get to decide if you just chose the more sensible path to allow yourself more time, control and funds over your situation.

You are going to have to take a risk and step out of your comfort zone.

Heaps easier to do it now before you get more set in your ways and go bald and get droopy balls at 60 or whenever.

30's 40's and even 50's guys get hot girls in their 20's every day of the week.

Decide if you want in on it or not.

Title	I have a very limited view of life after college, like I am either supposed to die lonely or get married. Anyone else feeling just lost?
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Date	December 20, 2016 2:19 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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