Girl who i drove to school asked why im not driving her to school anymore. need help!

Cunt_Robber · 2016-12-12T17:22:06+00:00

You were trying to trade your resources/services for sex. Many posts on TRP advise men to trade sex for sex, to focus on using sex as the thing of value you are exchanging. You are the prize, not your wealth of resources or the services you provide. You instead gave her the pussy pass, plus you didn't even make a move (show interest), and expected her to pursue you in exchange? That's not how it works.

You should have shown interest right away, thus if she had a boyfriend you would have found out quicker without wasting your time and getting into the situation prompting you to post this. Extend the favor of giving a ride/lift (to women) only to those who know youre interested in them and who you've either already fucked or will create the opportunity to fuck by being one-on-one with them in the car and turning your game on (make them laugh, kino, comfort, kiss, grab em by the pussy...).

In the future, work on showing interest immediately. Don't waste your time! Girls get hit on ALL THE TIME by guys, if you dont do it she'll friendzone you immediately especially if you're offering a [free] service (though she'll suspect you like her, and likely perceive you as a manipulative "nice guy" beta). Rid yourself of the mentality that girls will "figure out" you like them and make the move on you.

With this girl, simply tell her you've gotten busy with extracurriculars (you can be more specific or leave it vague) and that it is not convenient for you anymore but maybe in the future, you'll let her know --being busy and unavailable may actually cause her to be attracted to you (supply and demand). Anyway, leave room for uncertainty in case she splits from her bf, don't burn the bridge and leave yourself a convenient opening ;)

Or, if you think you're better than her bf in looks and in having a car, you can try the riskier option and hit on her anyway in your car. Risky cause you might come off as sleazy, but you have plausible deniability that you didnt know she had a bf.

[deleted] · 2016-12-12T16:46:48+00:00

"you have a boyfriend and if you aren't trying to fuck, why am I driving you anywhere?"

You are essentially a pussy if you continue with this woman and don't get laid

Title	Girl who i drove to school asked why im not driving her to school anymore. need help!
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Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	December 12, 2016 4:44 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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