My first time in club. I don't drink alcohol. Can someone help me understand?

vandaalen · 2016-12-03T11:56:45+00:00

Just don't dance if you don't want to and game girls at the bar.

UziNidalee · 2016-12-03T15:08:09+00:00

I fucking love going to clubs, I do it sober too. The thing is I am a really good dancer and i enjoy it, I will dance around the house all the time, also I enjoy EDM.

Club game is different from others, you just have to figure out how to do it. I start of by actually having fun, dancing around with my friends (males and females) and having a visible smile on my face all the time. When I have had enough of dancing I tell my bros to go to the smoking area to cool down, this is where I will approach girls. If I can't pull one to come to the dance floor with me I will just go to the dance floor myself and dance but this time with the intention of finding hot girls.

What I like to do is dance, smile, and look for eye contact, if there is eye contact I go in for the kill, dance, pull out my hand so he grabs it and start talking. If no eye contact then I position myself strategically so when I say something she will hear it and know it's directed at her, "hey I like your hair" then if she looks at you it's game on. Find ways to isolate her and find a more quiet area and start chatting plus escalating.

There are many different methods it just comes with experience but honestly if I actually approach girls and try to pull I will almost certainly bring a girl back home for "an after party"

BestSC86 · 2016-12-03T15:12:41+00:00

"I can't help but to feel dancing and music is stupid."

Not everyone like music\dancing but this comment shows I suspect one of your main issues going forward..

Being a very judgmental twerk who cast aspersion on guys\gals around you whom don't think like you think....Why would you think something is stupid simply because it is not your thing? How would you react to a girl thinking you were an idiot because you did nothing but WOW?

Oh and hate to break it to ya, but lots of really, really attractive women live for music and dancing....so you are casting aside about 70% of available women for thinking that their prime hobby makes them idiots?

Jacamez · 2016-12-03T18:35:57+00:00

Dancing and music is stupid? And you go to a place where people go to enjoy dancing and music. Take some mushrooms and realize that your insecurities are all in your head. You need to do what you enjoy and find a girl that way... because "dancing and music is stupid"

LordThunderbolt · 2016-12-06T16:49:26+00:00

Dancing is a hobby to some people. They just love to move to music. The club provides that atmosphere so that's where they go. If you prefer having a thumb up your butt while you drink Merlot and talk about classical literature, go to a country club or something.

Title	My first time in club. I don't drink alcohol. Can someone help me understand?
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Date	December 3, 2016 11:43 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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