Wondering if anyone knows signs that you missed attraction? For example a couple of months ago, I was hitting on this woman and it was fun, but I thought I wasn't generating enough attraction so I left the bar when she went out to smoke. When I got out there she said: "Are you leaving already? I guess I will see you around, handsome!"

So I blew that one. Occasionally I will get the "I guess I will see you around" comment and I tend to think it meant I underestimated the level of attraction. I am late 40s, work out 3x a week, big shoulders and arms, very good facial genetics (jaw line, cheekbones, cheek hollows) and am really good at eye contact.

Today I met a woman in a coffee shop. I am awkward as hell at day game and I dislike interrupting people working. But we chatted and exchanged names, but I felt like I hadn't really generated enough attraction and decided not to go for it. As she was leaving she said "Nice meeting you edwardhwhite." Before I opened her I did see her glancing at me. Not a ton of IOIs, but a few.

I had a similar situation last night. Chatted a bunch with a woman who I saw checking me out. Never went for the number because I over heard a convo she had on her phone with someone that was going to miss her and I did not want to be asking her out as some BF walked in.

One of the problems is my genetics. In bars I am opened a lot and especially women with BFs and husbands are shameless with me and do crazy shit with rubbing their tits on me and humping my leg etc. This has resulted in a weakness in approaching and escalating because I rely on them.

Did I miss something today or last night? Daygame is hard.