How to deal with disrespect in a social setting?

GayLubeOil · 2016-12-01T12:12:07+00:00

Rather than asking how to handle these situations ask yourself why are these situations happening to me? Well here's the answer because honestly at this point I don't expect serious critical self reflection out of anyone here.

It's because you probably look like a bitch. Would any of these things happen to a tall muscular guy? How about an older confident man? What about Harambee? Would people snap in the face of a 400 pound gorilla?

No. People arnt afraid of you and are treating you like shit. If this offends you it's because it's true and you look like a bitch.

So please take sometime to fix this issue. GaylubeOil is just a conduit for the truth.

_JustASnowFlake_ · 2016-12-01T06:52:25+00:00

A deeper aspect here, sounds like those add up to a victims mentality.

I used to have most of those happen because I didn't respect myself a few years ago. Once I started to look after and respect myself, so did others.

Remember, things only happen to you if you allow it. If you don't respect yourself, why should anyone else.

BestSC86 · 2016-12-01T15:24:48+00:00

You must be giving off a pitiful, weak vibe for so many "disrespectful" episodes in your life....particularly among family.

It sounds like you are so insecure and afraid that you invite abuse from those around you....

Stop being a child and those around you treat you accordingly.

BestSC86 · 2016-12-01T23:23:57+00:00

This had to be a troll post....

The OP showed why he gets this treatment within an hour of posting this childish rant.

Because he storms off like a little girl in tantrum fit at every supposed incident of 'disrespect'.

If he only knew that his own response is why his family member target him as someone to have their jollies.

Title	How to deal with disrespect in a social setting?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	13
Date	December 1, 2016 6:27 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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