I cannot be funny. I cant crack a joke, tell funny stories, joke about anything and so on. I can react sometimes to funny things people do/say but i never ever "take initiative". Some guys/girls at my work are like naturals in that, joking about everything, laughing non stop. How do i become such a person, it helps at work, in relationships, in picking up girls and so on i watched some stand up or some funny movies but that does not help