If I stay single past the age of 30, am I going to have to get used to being alone no matter my SMV?

zboo1h · 2016-11-06T18:21:07+00:00

No. No, no, no, no. Stop. I just turned 30 and have never, ever, EVER had as much abundance and value. My 20's were a long, arduous awakening process wherein I focused my time and effort towards my career, and it has payed off big time and is only getting started. Meanwhile my muscle gains are steady and as long as I focus on my mission, the women make themselves available more and more. Every day I am stronger and every day I am more confident. Every day I have more money, every day I have new phone numbers.

You will only be "lonely and by yourself" if you're a fucking loser who puts pussy on a pedestal and doesn't have a mission in his life.

[deleted] · 2016-11-06T18:18:31+00:00

I knew a guy close to sixty with a girlfriend 15 years younger. Learn to manage your bitch in a relationship.

And get a Bro dog if you are lonely. Fuck, I hear you can train them to get a beer for you. That's fucking love right there.

[deleted] · 2016-11-06T19:46:27+00:00

The divorce rate is at least 50% and the marriage rate is decreasing. You won't have a problem finding other single men and women to hang out with.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-11-06T20:11:30+00:00

49 checking in. The only time I'm alone is when I want to be.

The__Tren__Train · 2016-11-06T20:50:46+00:00

Also... What is the alternative??...getting married?

Chances are good you'll be lonely as fuck, AND you'll have to send half your paycheck her way each month... More if u have kids.

And if she doesn't leave you, she'll just get fat... So you will STILL be lonely, but have a fat fuck nagging you and eating your retirement

3rt41 · 2016-11-06T19:18:12+00:00

You should be comfortable with the idea of being alone no matter what.

Things end, everything is temporary and blabla.

You should consider that the only constant in your entire life is you, so you should take care of yourself always.

You can have a social live, you can avoid it. Who cares? Just do what makes you feel the best. Try.

Relationship-wide, the more time passes, the more you will feel estranged at the idea of unconditional and careless "love" and affection for another human being. I guess it's called "growing".

I get what you are saying and yes, having a social circle of friends in their 30s and showing up with a young girl is considered as weird. But not so much, actually. Real friends won't give an actual fuck about your decisions as long as they see you happy and sane.

Apexk9 · 2016-11-06T19:58:56+00:00

I'm 31 and alone. I sleep with women. I'm looking for a women I can be with but tbh I don't have time.

Most women can handle me for 4 to 6 months but ten there is no commitment. I'm busy running a business and living life.

I have a dog i raise and care for.

But I'm never lonely because I'm to busy.

Just live life and maybe one day you'll find a decent women that fits your criteria of companionship.

pprstrt · 2016-11-06T21:18:51+00:00

Read the sidebar.

Your SMV doesn't plummet when you hit age 28. You're not a girl. Your SMV is connected more to your power than to your looks. It rises until your early 40s. You lose the ripped, wanderer, frat boy, chad power when you exit your 20s, but you gain the rich, cultured, experienced, lifestyle power in your 30s and 40s. Approaching 50 you'll need to keep on your fitness and activities game, but prior to that you're only going up in value.

The__Tren__Train · 2016-11-06T20:31:29+00:00

Use steroids to be ripped, train hard, clean diet.

You will age amazingly and, assuming you aren't horrendously ugly or comically short, you won't be alone

People want to be where there is beauty and happiness

blackedoutfast · 2016-11-06T22:06:07+00:00

A lot of people do get married and start having kids and basically disappear from the social scene in their late 20s and early 30s, but a lot of people don't. There are millions of people in their 30s (and older) who are either unmarried or divorced. And a lot of people do still do social stuff after they get married.

If necessary, expand the age range of people you are willing to hang out with and accept the fact that people will drift in and out of your life.

addwater · 2016-11-07T14:28:19+00:00

The loneliest I've ever been were in unfulfilling relationships.

Title	If I stay single past the age of 30, am I going to have to get used to being alone no matter my SMV?
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Date	November 6, 2016 6:11 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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