This has happened to me like 3-4 times now. I go to a party/club, make out with a chick, go back to mine or hers, and then kind of freeze up when trying to make that final move. Usually I'm sobering up at this point and I just don't quite know how to go for it. It's a bit of a mental block, I'm a virgin and feel like I've had a million chances to lose it but chicken out or freeze up at the last second. One of my friends has been saying 'just be more savage'. How do I escalate in a way that seems natural? Or does it not matter, should I just make a move even if the conversation is awkward/dead?