Hey boys, so I've been lurking for about three years, lifting for one and a half, and i've read the side bar twice, might read it again, just to reinforce some ideas.

So basically, my girlfriend of 6 years and I finally broke up. The details of that aren't too important. It was something I wanted and I worked to make it her idea to break up. We used to live together, but now I live with two other students in a sharehouse.

Essentially, I am free to do what I want now, but I'm not really sure of what to do...

The guys in my share house are good to talk to, but on a non-verbal level we have already established we are not going to hang out. Not a big deal, but I am being struck with the realisation that I don't have any friends or anyone who wants to spend time with me.

Maybe I am socially inept, but I can't really tell if I am, so I don't think about it.

Anyway, I'm not sure of what I want at the moment.

I am just feeling alone and I guess I just want some guidance.

Cheers.