Hey guys, thanks and a clever one of you that rocks at finding posts can help me out.

I'm trying desperately to find a post that had something to do with flirting. Key words mentioned in the post were about plausible deniability, flirting with women that are not part of your social group "open system" as opposed to already socially in a group " closed system". Something along the lines that you flirt in very subtle ways with someone in the group, keeping her at ease where as someone outside the group you escalate much faster. I just can't find it and its really pissing me off.

It was a longish post if i recall, fairly certain it was within the past 4 months. I think it was on the main redpill page, but just as easily couldve been on the asktrp.

big help if someone can unearth it quickly as i definitely want a refresher soon