So this is a question about where I went wrong in this situation. What happened, and how can I make it better? I'm tired of not getting girls.

last night I went to a high school party (one of my brothers first parties). Obviously thinking most are underage, I shouldn't hit on anyone. through the night I played pong against 2 girls, whose friend was giving me strong iois, who one of the friends was basically telling me to make out with the friend. after the pong we stepped outside for a smoke break. Through the conversation I am groping the friends ass in front of my and she's super receptive. I isolate her out to the car, where to were making out, but it didn't progress from there.

Now this is where I mightve messed up, please give some insight.

As we were making out she basically told me to take her, but I stopped because I didn't have a condom readily available.

we go back to her friends where I say I'm taking my brother home, and that I'll be back.

I drop my brother off and got a condom, then headed back to the house. they were there and as soon as I walk up the girl gets out and starts coming with me to the car. Now when we were getting down there, she starts saying she's too tired and just wants to get home. Is this a genuine concern, or is it just a shit test? I tried escalating more but she kept stopping me. I'm not entirely sure how much of it is "no" or just asd. thinking it's just asd, I kept trying to get her to come back to mhy place, to which she didn't agree.

I told her is was gonna be at the beach all day and she should come, which she said maybe and made out again.

I get the girls number, and text her when I'm leaving the beach, about 2pm.

M: Hey babe, I'm leaving for the beach now, I'll see you there.

H: I'm at the beach. But we all decided to stay close to home. Way to many kids with us rn lol. (she knew which beach I meant)

M: Kids?

H: Today apparently is family day and I'm with my mom, sister, her friend, my neighbor and her two kids. So...

M: okay, I'll be at the beach until the drum circle, so come out when you're done with family

H: I was just invited to that by another friend of mine lol

M: Is she hot?

H: I think she is

M: Then I'll have two cute ones to dance with

H: sends picture of her and friend

M: (5 hours later) left doe👌

M: you make it to the beach? (8:01)

H: (an hour later) No ... I'm sorry

so that it, this is where I'm at. this is the first girl I escalated with that wasn't a sure fuck.

I'm thinking about saying "come over and show me how sorry you are" but that feels wrong. is this the right move that I need to push past the hamster?

please give any insight, thanks brothers