How to handle girl who seemed spooked after second date

lemoncakesaregross · 2015-12-04T04:48:59+00:00

don't apologize for escalating too quickly. In reality if she came back to your house at some point she was planning to bone. Now I'm not saying you did anything wrong, some girls don't really know what they're doing and can become nervous all the sudden and dip out unexpectedly. Most likely she's inexperienced and realized what was going to happen and then freaked out a little. (or had some other personal issues going on)

If you like her don't mention what happened, ask on another date and maybe go on a few before you decide to hook up again. Note that she may be a little reluctant to open up like she did before because she's probably self conscious because of what happened

good luck

dusky99 · 2015-12-04T11:37:09+00:00

It sounds like you escalated too hard too fast before building enough comfort or there wasn't enough attraction on her part in the first place. I had this happen on a first date as well, the girl literally ran away once outside. I never heard from her again even after casually messaging her a few days later. Next her and forget about her.

Title	How to handle girl who seemed spooked after second date
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Date	December 4, 2015 4:25 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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