I ask this because I went to my third college party yesterday and I feel I'm starting to get the hang of the party social dynamic. Each party I've gone to, I've pregamed incredibly hard and been high and drunk for both. Needless to say, I didn't leave with a girl for any of the parties. I can't game at parties for the life of me. I'm not sure if it's because I'm twisted, or if my party game just sucks and the obvious answer is to not drink or smoke(which I'll do next party). Is it better to be more coherent at parties for gaming, or am I just doing it wrong?