LTR (21F) of six months broke up with me (19M), completely torn apart

abdada · 2015-09-19T00:04:27+00:00

She's 1-4 years from gaining 25# and hitting the wall.

Send her a Christmas card in ten years from your house in the Caymans.

radianceofparadise · 2015-09-19T07:36:27+00:00

Don't expect LTR's to last at this age. You have a lot to learn about yourself still. Breakups at your age are particularly painful. You'll feel this pain again when future breakups happen, but if you learn to emotionally ground yourself and not seek external validation from women, the intensity and duration won't be as bad.

I'm not advising you to try to get back together with her, but to even have a slim chance, you have to stop being emotional around her. No crying, no getting angry because she won't fuck you. You also have to go NC for a good amount of time. Don't spend that time moping around. Spend that time actually improving yourself. Make her wonder what happened to you. If she comes back and sees you're still the same dude, it will only validate her reason for breaking up with you. Read the sidebar at least 5 times. Internalize it. There are no unicorns. Stop putting pussy on the pedestal. She isn't special no matter how much your dick lies to you. You either choose to sink or swim at this point. Fucking swim.

XofBlack · 2015-09-19T23:04:08+00:00

DON'T text her after the one week has passed. If that week has already passed and you texted her, well fuck.

LTR (21F) of six months broke up with me (19M), completely torn apart

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Title	LTR (21F) of six months broke up with me (19M), completely torn apart
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Date	September 18, 2015 11:58 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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