So my girlfriend had a crush on her friend from her hometown who is a bit of a Chad; he beds lots of women, he's goofball/charmer, tall, buff, Marine...

I had been sleeping with this girl for a semester, but didn't have any feelings for her at the time. I took her virginity, so she ended up really liking me. After the semester, I went ghost for a summer. In that time, in an effort to get over me, she spent a weekend at Chad's military base, where they "almost" slept together.

Apparently someone stopped someone from going past third base. I'm not stupid, he could of fucked her silly for all I know. In my mind I consider them to have fucked whether they did or not. It's whatever, we weren't together at the time.

But this guy is a player. Part of me thinks he DID stop at third base, to keep her longing for it for the rest of her days.

Anyway, we are together now, and I noticed this Chad "likes" every single post on my girl's fb wall. Every. Single. One. He sends her snapchats occasionally too. I confronted her on the snapchats, because that is very suspicious to me, she says she doesn't snapchat him, he just sends them to her.

The last time I saw her receive a snapchat from him I broke frame a bit and snooped...she has not messaged him since Jan 2014...on facebook at least. For some reason that's all I thought to check.

She's obsessed with me, but I can't help but feel like Chad is always in the back of her mind, and he uses social media to remind her he's lurking in the shadows.

It's also worth noting I look like a beta bitch on FB. I haven't edited it in a long as time and theres a bunch of terrible pictures of me on there. I probably looks unworthy of her.

TLDR:

Gf's former Chad crush seems to be waiting for me to fuck up, circles our relationship on social media like a wolf.