Girlfriend telling me to slow down during sex?

halfunplugged · 2015-08-18T21:07:49+00:00

SO, when you slow down does she tend to like it or is she begging for you to go faster? Sex is one of the easiest instant-response things you have with women. They can't hide what they like or don't. If you think she's throwing you curveballs with your dick inside her she's either playing the game deeper than any girl I know or you're wayyy overthinking it.

Slow it down, change positions, you shouldn't be a jackhammer 100% of the time. Read Sex God Method (see: Variety)

alreadyredschool · 2015-08-18T19:46:11+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rvdYly4A5W0

lazysnakes · 2015-08-18T21:59:25+00:00

in my experience, going a bit slower in the middle for a little while helps me (female) to kind of feel all the sensations more and then it builds up across my whole body more to give a better orgasm. i don't know what sex feels like for guys obviously, but there is some weird thing where sometimes i can be having sex and not really physically be feeling much down there. it's like sometimes you gotta breathe into it, relax down into your body and get out of your head. (and of course it is easier to relax and let go with a strong, dominant man...) if that's what it is going on then she is probably just saying what she instinctively feels that she needs to have a good time. (which I would perceive as a good thing, she is in touch with herself) so give that to her for a little while (like 30 secs / a minute?) to increase the intensity then build it back up again. (that is assuming she is enjoying it and not just telling you to slow down in a trying to push you off way cos that's a whole different problem!) if you are physically fucking her too hard she will say 'ow' , that's different.

ben0wn4g3 · 2015-08-19T10:23:50+00:00

Wtf. A lot of girls actually only cum from sort of grinding. So hard and fast doesn't do much. Especially fast. Are you like 15?

Title	Girlfriend telling me to slow down during sex?
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Date	August 18, 2015 7:25 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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