Got a girl that is into me, we went on a couple dates then fucked on the second one. Says she wants to see me, but I'm the sucker that's been picking her up. I don't mind the first few dates, but on the third one I feel like she needs to come see me, or at least meet me half way so I'm not driving 40 minutes each direction. What should I do? I told her last night to come meet me at a club and grab an uber which would have been a 20 minute ride, but she bullshitted her way out of it...I'm scared, I don't like riding alone...ect.

What should I be doing, or acting and possibly saying to convince her that she should come to me, at least some of the time?