I'm in an open relationship and I don't know what to do.

[deleted] · 2015-07-23T02:32:24+00:00

my skin is too dark.

Fuck your relationship, handle this shit first. "My skin is too dark". I hate people of color that think this way.

[deleted] · 2015-07-23T07:36:37+00:00

The girl I'm in an open relationship with is very light skinned (basically white) and she has many guys compliment her when we're together.

Jealous, little to no abundance mentality.

I'm still big I can't workout for a while because I'm injured.

To be honest my facial features are good but my skin is too dark. I'm in the sun all the time and my face, forearms, neck and legs are darker than the rest of my body.

Male hamstering. There's plenty to do anyway. What's the injury? Can you swim or run? Lifting isnt necessary, just get/stay in shape whatever way possible. If you're already big, cutting with cardio will add definition and aesthetic. The importance is strength/being fit and feeling good in your own body. Being big isnt that important.

I'm thinking of seeing a dermatologist to figure out how I can get rid of this permanent tan.

Insecurity can be fixed internally 99% of the time. I have vitiligo. Ever see black people with white splotches? Well I have it, but I'm white. It shows as dark red splotches on my white skin. It covers my entire torso, much of my arms, and my groin. Guess what? Women dont care about the pigment of my skin, and they wont care about yours, if you can release your insecurity about it.

I need to get rid of this girl because she shows me no respect and treats me like shit.

The rational statement in this. Drop her. Work on yourself. Develop confidence. Study more. Internalize your frame.

But I'm not going to find any other girl near her looks level. I've tried tinder and it just doesn't work for me.

Insecurities and a lack of abundance mentality. Work on your frame.

All in all, you just need to work on yourself and develop your frame. Read the top posts of all time in the sub, read the sidebar, read no more mr nice guy. Most importantly, implement what you learn.

Title	I'm in an open relationship and I don't know what to do.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	2
Date	July 23, 2015 12:54 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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