This is my 2nd time writing this (first time got deleted by mistake) so cut right too it.

The first step to solving a problem is admitting you have one and the 2nd step is surpunding yourself with like minded people. So ive heard. I have an issue talking to men and women.

With guys, i dont command the respect i feel i deserve. I dont drink or smoke but im a good kind guy and i try to be chill. I have 1 or 2 friends who everyone sees me with... thats basically it and they are awesome guys but the thing is that theyre not exactly high Smv. When im at a party guys dont treat me well im kind of just there and ill find myself trying to have fun but i end up just standing with my drink(juice in a cup...) pretending to be having a great time (in hopes women will see) im social and everyones cool with me but they treat me as if im not equal. Ill find that we will be in a circle talking and eventually the circle with either break up leaving me alone or i will get slowly pushed out or stepped infront of (my mistake...i think)

With women me and my friend will sometimes go to all ages clubs and meet girls there and i can get lots of uglies or sometimes decent girls but nothing that i feel a good guy (not a peice of shit douchebag) deserves. In school or in the daytime im basically useless...When it comes to school or in the club decent and hot girls will either do one of 3 things to me: 1. Tell me to shutup/fuck off 2. Ignore me. 3. Give me polite answers with a "why is this weirdo talking to me vibe" until someond better comes along or she just leaves while im talking or she looses interest...

Ive tried to improve myself and i heard that the red pill has alot of good material and members that wanna be the best version of themselves. here is some of the stuff ive read: rsd, stephan erdman, tripps tips, elliot hulse

Basically my end goal is to go into grade 12 and be the guy that people say "ya i know him hes a cool guy" or "whos that can you introduce me to him?" Or "damn hes cute lets go say hi" I dont wanna be some creepy pua fucker who plays a numbers game with uglies and is not even that good at it.. i wanna be a naturally attractive guy who men wanna be and women wanna be with like: the wolf of wallstreet, james bond, alfie, the fonz... something like that.

Heres what im working with Im going into grade 12 In canada dont drnk or smoke im 5'11 (could pass for 6ft) Im average size, 174lb with a small belly and some extra fat and skin (im skinnyfat but im trying to loose it) I live in a small town of 12,000 people everyone is very familiar with eachother my school is also pretty small i got 1 or 2 close pals I got 2 1/2 months to reinvent myself

My game with (ugly) girls in the club looks like open Dance Talk tease her in a cocky douchey jokey way Talk about deeper subjects kiss number. no responce

Ive heard you guys are the best at self improvement so i figured you guys would be a good forum. Basically i wanna go into grade 12 and not have to chase women but rather i want to be the guy women chase and guys wanna hang with and invite out ...im not sure how to go about this bit like i said any responces help.

Thanks for your help in advance and sorry for the long question.

TL;DR: going into grade 12 and im not where i wanna be socially with men and women. I want to be in a position where women approach me, wanna be with me and men wanna invite me out and hang with me. How can i fix this?