Hey TRP, looking for some ideas on a possible situation I'm 80% sure might happen. Would like to be prepared if it does. Been friends/acquaintances with a chick for a couple of years now but we were both in LTRs so were never more than casual friends (hung out once a month or so).

Both recently single, and have been chatting a bit over the last 2 weeks. Not a lot (we're not "texting buddies"), just some flirty texts/FB messages every few days. Conversation has been extremely sexual at times (she's the one who first made it sexual, pretty sure she's down to fuck).

Few other good indicators, eg "I feel like you're so different to how you were before, like you're more... virile... and dare I say it a little more flirty :p" etc. Invited her over my apartment for red wine and dinner this weekend, said she's welcome to crash here if it gets too late, she said hell yes. Good sign.

But here's my question: She's 30, I'm 28 (I know, I know, why the fuck am I gaming a 30yo woman - partly for the challenge/learning experience, plus she's very hot). Because of her age though, her last couple of guys she's made wait for like 6 weeks before sex, and they agreed like little beta fags (even though she's told me many times all the crazy fucking sex stuff she's done in the past, insane stuff). She already told me she wants to "discuss some things..." when we hang out, regarding the way we've been flirting with each other.

So I have a feeling the night is going to be some weird "let's talk about how we want to fuck each other but make it a logical negotiation and lay out the terms and conditions of proceeding." Fuck that, I'm not up for a discussion about sex like I'm some sex-starved beta, I just wanna bang her. I've already got another plate (and having drinks at my place with another girl next week), so I'm not hella desperate for this girl... But at the same time I haven't been in this situation before and am curious what you would say if you found yourself in the situation where a girl says something like "Let's talk about having sex with each other and lay down some rules."

Thinking something like "I don't believe sex is something you should negotiate like it's a business deal... To me that just spoils the magic. Sexual energy isn't something you negotiate, it's something you just FEEL with the right person, you know?"

Thoughts?