Theme of the week seems to be "sex doesnt mean that much" and either way you look at it, whether it be that just saying that is a demeaning insult to men or a truth to allow us to focus on our goals. However despite either opinion there is one main reason why I and maybe others my age focus on getting sex more than anything, and for me thats fear. The fear is due to the thought of missing out on getting laid when the girls are at there most attractive, fear that I will not get good enough at pickup in time to capitalise on this, fear I will be stuck when I reach 30 nine years from now with girls who have hit the wall as "my reward" and to be honest its getting to me, especially with the stupid number of near misses I have with getting laid that get fucked up due to an endless pool of problems that come up at the time. Anyone else had this happen or care to explain things?