I'm sorry if this is more of the kind of thing I should post on seddit but I wanna make sure i get some red pill responses. I'm still digesting the pill/beta-in-rehab so any input will be welcome.

Alright, cutting to the chase here. Meet up with some friends for drinks, friend invites some of her friends. Start talking to one of them, goes really well. We head to a club. Start dancing/grinding immediately. Fast foward 2ish hours - We head back to her place with a couple of my friends to smoke more and drink. I walk with her to her place while my friends drop off 1 from the group at home. Still all good, we get home and start hardcore making out on her couch ( fingering etc etc). Friends come to the door so we stop. We all chill for an hour or so smoking and listening to music (i'm still making out with her but just kissing). Friends fall asleep on couch and and we move to the bedroom. So this is where I start needing advice.

Starting to escalate, she stops me from taking off her underwear and says "I don't usually sleep with guys I just meet" which I say is fine and stick to making out. Part of me thinks I should have said something like "ususally? so are you about to make an exception?" and tried to escalate further.

So the next morning we all go get breakfast and I'm still kissing her etc. After that is where I feel like I start fucking up.

  1. I know she's working saturday night so i send her a picture of a concert me and my friends were at saying "How's work? :P"

  2. We text back n forth a bit, I keep it sexual-ish but then I ask as i was on my way to a club to hangout, I didn't specify a date and didn't mean the same night. She assumed it was the same night and said "I'm still at work" and followed with when i didn't reply " Actually I think I'm just going to bed. It's been a long day at work". I say "No worries. Night".

3)Today I texted her a stupid fucking picture of a cat that I thought was hilarious because she loves cats and has one

All in all, I feel I've made too much contact? Maybe I'm just over thinking it? I've been in monk mode for a while now and I'm just starting to see it translate into my life. I want to keep learning from my mistakes. I want to ask her out but I feel like I should practice some radio silence. Thoughts? I wan't to make sure I don't repeat any mistakes I've made in the future with other girls.

Thanks in advance fellas.