I am getting a divorce and am changing jobs. I have 2 solid options from work, and one unlikely option (not discussed). The two used to be friends. One of them, Mary, is mixed raced, kinda ratchet and is playing the overt game. Telling me she prefers to swallow, , her legs by her ears, answering my texts with nekkid photos and lingerie shots. I used to be a manager at work and I think she would love to have me as a notch. Mary is 27.

Jane is 20. She is much more demure. She seemed to be down for all the summer time fun. Shooting, ultimate, biking, running. A while ago she noted my weight loss and I mentioned that one runs to look good in clothes, and one lifts weights to look good naked. She now has an ass and told me she is lifting. She tickles my shoulder when walking by. Plenty of covert indicator interests. My problem with Jane is I can't convert past social interactions at work. An older lady.....Uh, La Meurta noticed all of Marys attention and is probably cock blocking me a bit my letting Jane know.

My brother tells me reputation is contagious and I should not bang Mary if I want any kind of chance of getting with Jane. Jane seemingly has more to offer than just her pussy, which is all Mary is good for. What does the congregation think? establish pre-selection? Or is going for her slightly ratchet former friend a deal breaker? And if it is, so what?

My plan is to go silent on text/FB messanger a while. Ill like and comment posts on them and others, nothing overdone. I'm going on a bike ride with another single dad and were going to toss the pictures up on FB, I took my kid to an Easter egg hunt today, pictres up on facebook. Be out and about- I have a life and am having fun.

My son goes back to his mother Monday. Aint no body coming over to my house until then. Questions/Advice?