I started hanging out with this chick (no bang yet) recently, and I've actually been into her for a while but didn't act on it.

What happened was that I bumped into her at a party, after a year, and we talked for an hour, give or take. This guy who was my main wing (we're still friends, just don't hang as often) at the time meets her on the same night.

He tells me he's into her, big fucking time. And since I had another solid lead at the time, I let it go.

Turns out she was a virgin, and he was the first guy she kissed. They'd hang out a lot, for hours, watching movies, shooting the shit, and what not. Things didn't work out between them, she was filled with shit tests that he kept on failing, and afaik, no bang happened.

Guy's fucked some other chicks in between, and is now in an LTR. I bumped into the girl again, had the opportunity to make my move, and did. I told the guy the next time we hung out, and he said he really couldn't give a fuck.

And here's the thing. I find it a bit grating that he got there before me. How do I deal with this? It's not because there were other guys, but rather just that it was him.

Had a nice date with her the other day. But a couple times, the thought of said guy crept in, and it bothered me a bit.

How do I let go of this? Is this because I might have some resentment towards the guy?

Worth noting that I actually like this chick. One of the few I've met who I actually wanna spend time with. She's not some chick that I'm just spitting game at because I wanna bone her, and that's it.

Just thinking out loud here.