I have a circle of friends with whom I like to shoot shit and hang around with. Some of them are betas, some are naturals, but none of them is quite red.

Now, that extended circle includes their girls. Most of them LTRs, but sometimes a new girl drops by with one of the single guys. When we get together for whatever, the shaming starts.

I'm not a veteran by any means, but I know how to deal with the type. A lot of times though, I'm trying hard not to pull a rank over these guys and their girls, especially when they bring a new one and I'd like to fuck her. It's wearing out on me.

These relationships are valuable to me and I'm not willing to let them fall apart because of the kind of bullshit women can pull, but I'm sure my buddies would never understand if I spoke my mind.

How would I best go about handling this?