So how much/how do you lie to girls?

[deleted] · 2015-01-31T20:32:03+00:00

Never lie. Evade, change the subject or give a broad answer.

For example, when I want to end it with a girl I tell her I might be moving away in the future. I'm not planning to go anywhere but anything is possible so I say "might".

abdada · 2015-01-31T20:08:21+00:00

Zero lies. I have a bad memory, so lying means I wouldn't be able to remember what I lied about.

The less you tell a woman, the more she will fantasize in her head, which is a good thing. Mystery is more powerful than facts.

Read Rollo, he's got some good articles about it (one is titled Imagine).

InformalCriticism · 2015-01-31T21:01:46+00:00

I don't lie. There are better ways to attract women in my opinion.

The closest I come to lying is telling girls that "I smell every fart [they] let out, but I stone face through it". They say they don't believe me, and they're amused/shocked; they know they can never be sure about something like that. If I were you, I'd start focusing on "safe" ribbing, sarcasm, or things that you actually think are fun - women like authenticity, and it's harder to be fake than real.

oldredder · 2015-02-01T03:23:46+00:00

none.

I have life experience so I don't need to lie. Others had life experience before me so I would mention their stories when I was younger.

I met a lot of people so I didn't pretend.

If I did pretend eventually I'd be caught because people would meet and identify the lies. Those around me who did lie were caught that way and lost all social status as a result.

prodigy2throw · 2015-02-02T14:16:34+00:00

When talking to girls from OKCupid I give a fake white person name. I'm Pakistani but tell girls i'm some sort of mix or evade the question when asked.

Went the honesty policy at the beginning but as soon as I dropped my real name it would be COMPLETE radio silence. Not even joking this happened at least 30 times where girls would be completely engaged and interested and as soon as I drop my name they turn cold in a microsecond. No more replies it's like I was Mindy Kaling in that stupid commercial.

At first I took it extremely personally and was extremely offended but now I just take it for what it is. These women don't use the same logic as guys. I would tell myself these girls are stupid but now I understand what's going on and use it to my advantage. My background isn't exactly the sexiest but as soon as I say I'm half Persian and half white my smv is through the roof. These girls are NOT stupid they just want to find high smv with the least amount of work.

So yeah, I give a fake name now and don't feel bad because I know very matter of factly they would shut me out immediately based on something as petty as my name. So fuck that. If I find someone worth an LTR I'll tell her exactly why and if she can't deal then I'll move on to the next one. Most of these girls are barely plate worthy so I don't care.

When out in the real world I use my real name because I can demonstrate SMV in other ways so my name is an afterthought.

Title	So how much/how do you lie to girls?
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Date	January 31, 2015 7:58 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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