How do you apply the commandment of Poon, "Always keep two in the kitty" whilst in an LTR? What is in and out of bounds when applying this rule? As a man, it is in my interest to have a safety net in the event my LTR collapses and to avoid a dry spell. As men we do the leg work investing time, game, attention doing the leg work, so we are at greater loss in the event our LTRs fuck up. An LTR is an investment and I don't see whats wrong in protecting yourself in the event your investment collapses.