So i played a ladder game when my SO asked for help. long story short i told her over the phone what she had to do. She did not understand it, i told her i can help her later, but for now i am busy.

She then blamed me for not stoping everything (no way i would do this) and helping her. Even her gay friend stopped driving to help her (too bad i am not her gay friend).

So she has birthday tomorrow, but didnt contact me at all for the week. I dont really give a fuck, more time for me and my work/sport etc. But she planned on spending the night together on her evening before the birthday. My question is how to handle the situation. My intention ist to hold the feet still and wait for her to contact me, if she doesn't, pretty much her bad. I have a table booked for brunch tomorrow, i would go there, if she is not coming, her bad, but then again i feel a little bad for her that i will ignore her the whole birthday. On the other hand, if she wants to see me, its on her to contact me, she got my number....