For some preface, Very much still transitioning to TRP

Background info: I became friends with this girl through school and knew she had a boyfriend. I was JUST her friend for upwards of a year, because at the time blue pill me was thinking girls worth fucking don't cheat on their boyfriends. Over time we tiptoe'd around the fact that we were into each other, and said she loved me and wanted to fuck me, all the while having a boyfriend. I told her the same, but nothing happened and i realize now something could have, but we just were friends. I had just found the redpill, and realized she was just using me as her orbiter, and had done to another guy too.

6 months later were hanging out at my house before she goes to college, across the state, and she confessed she still wants to fuck me and I still had the thought that she wouldn't cheat on her boyfriend. she texts me next day saying we could've fucked the night before, there were no indicators that she wanted to that I saw. I told her whenever she comes home from college we were going to.

What i've learned from TRP already: I need to take her off the pedestal just because she says she loves me and wants to fuck. I shouldn't have Oneitis, just because she says she's reciprocating, doesn't mean she'd actually do anything.

My question: I should just focus on myself and take her off the pedestal and next her right? If she comes home from college and is dtf, then I'll have at it.