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How do you respond to a girl being reluctant to meet up after you got her number?

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June 20, 2014
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Title How do you respond to a girl being reluctant to meet up after you got her number?
Author

[deleted]
Upvotes 0
Comments 8
Date June 20, 2014 10:49 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/28mr86/how_do_you_respond_to_a_girl_being_reluctant_to/
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[–]schoolboyQueue4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

next

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Have you actually asked her? I bet you haven't.

[–] points points points 56 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]RPthrowaway1232 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"You're right, you'll buy me way too many drinks if we go out"

[–]whatever60 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ask her if she wants to watch a movie then. If not, forget her she is not attracted to you enough.

[–]theycallme10 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

She's testing you, expecting you to respond with "I'll pay for your drinks (because I'm needy and I'm begging you to spend time with me)".

[–] points points points 56 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]theycallme10 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Few problems here... 1. Don't hit her up later. 2. You're basically saying "Lmk if you're bored because my enjoyment is dependant on you". Nope. She needs to think/know you have other options. Your best bet is to meet another woman tonight. Nothing has to happen but since you'll be with mutual friends, people will talk and she'll find out. Boom.

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