questions about a post on trp

Kyrzar · 2014-04-12T15:17:01+00:00

While generalizations DO happen often on TRP, Most of us know not all women WILL cheat on you. However, it is important to know that all women CAN cheat on you. If there's another male somewhere on the planet, it's possible to be cheated on.

As far as best thing that's ever happened to her. Most men claim that all they need for a happy relationship is an attractive woman. By most I'm talking 60%+, Women have a lot of different claims, physical appearance, sense of humour, wit, attitude, fun to be around, etc and this could be part of that posturing to remain attractive to her. Ultimately, I think that statement wasn't needed and he could have simply left it with "I'm not interested in speaking with you any more", however in this event, he was clearly hurt, so it feels like he's attempting to hurt her the same way she hurt him.

Finally, it's quite possible that he wasn't paying her the attention he could have. It's also possible that she's lying or looking for excuses. Instead of standing straight up and saying "I'm done with our relationship because of X" or "You're too Y and I don't like that so it's over", she may be lying so she doesn't feel bad about breaking up with him. It's also quite possible that she did cheat on him, and is trying to either get away with it, or get him to break up with her. We don't have the proper details to know and part of TRP is viewing the world for what it is, A dangerous and cut-throat place. By assuming the worst, you can prepare for the worst, and properly protect yourself should the worst happen.

Modified_Hackware · 2014-04-12T16:58:34+00:00

He told himself NAWALT. Then experienced the rebuttal of that.
If he wasn't high value she wouldn't even be telling him half the truth, she'd have just lied. Since most men out there are useless faggots ( no offense homo bros) there's a good chance he was (the best thing to happen for her) and think of long term outcomes, girls in RP LTR are better off IMO. It's not all woman hating after all /s she had a man who knew he always had to be improving and wouldn't rest on his laurels and turn into a pussy on her.
I've never seen this assertion. Men getting cheated on because they lacked something is a staple tenant of TRP. Hence the poster is focusing on this almost exclusively.

Men cheat because we don't tend to pair bond with partners where it's sex only and because we are geared towards impregnating as many women as possible, whereas women are geared to tying down the most successful male they can find.

rporion · 2014-04-12T14:23:03+00:00

1) Because unlike what most redditors seem to believe, its not so much that the redpill corrupts men with evil, misogynistic fallacies, it is more like discovering the redpill and everything falls into place.

The feeling is "holy shit, it all makes sense now".

2) Maybe he was, maybe he was not.

"Selfish" is a bit more tricky, because women flock to selfish men, but only to a certain kind of selfish.

In a way he was "selfish" by leaning on her in a time of emotional need and that is the wrong kind of selfish, at least if you are a man.

So, in a way, you are correct.

3) Dont know where you got this from and if you got it from the redpill subreddit I would dismiss it as male hamstering.

Well, if you got it from somewhere else I would dismiss it as male hamstering too....

The truth is, a man can love you like no other and still stick his dick in strange poon, because we are by nature polygamous...

He is a dick if he promised not to, but it has by and large little to do with his feelings for you.

Since women are hypergamous, if she cheats its over, because she has decided that you are no longer good enough to give her the dick.

pheonixignition · 2014-04-13T03:24:23+00:00

Well, for one, she was in another country. She didn't have him around, and girls at young ages tend to be less willing to be loyal at that age. All in all, there have been very few women that I've seen who are completely loyal unless they have certain moral characteristics.

dos0mething · 2014-04-13T03:36:04+00:00

In general, a number of guys don't see this as an isolated instance. If it was, there would be a lot less of the "all women are XYZ" talk you hear. I can't speak from his experiences, but I can speak from mine. I've literally seen the gamete. in the past year, I've slept with three women who were engaged to "the love of their life." before this, i had been the guy who's the beta boyfriend, the good guy, the guy who cares, all that nonsense. caring gets you nowhere. it's sad but true. the less you care, the less you have to lose, the better your outcomes are.
as i stated before, this is probably hot air being said by him because he wasn't really the shit. or, he couldve been used into the ground and she got bored... so basically he was beta'd into oblivion.
this is the double edged sword of TRP, one of my biggest problems with it, which can go either way. the counter idea to the success of TRP is that it attracts a certain kind of girl, to which this works with. a particular archetype which (although extremely common) displays a certain number of negative qualities. its important to understand people are people. no one can be perfect all the time. from my understanding, the perfect spinning of a plate is to dissipate those feelings of being "too busy" for her, but not being there on her every whim. its a balancing act. ninja edit: since this is TRP, i should list the ideology's counterargument. their argument is that this works on every girl (obviously) and if it's not working it's because there was a problem with my execution. the kind of girl i suggest this doesn't work on is a "unicorn".... basically, doesn't exist. unicorns are the all encompassing good girl who never cheats and is honest and basically everything you could ever want ever with ice cream on her nipples and a vagina that tastes like juicyfruit.

in reality though, girls on spring break are lose as all hell.

Ryuudou · 2014-04-12T21:17:16+00:00

You're beginning to realize the heavy bias of the TRP. That's why you have these questions. While game itself fundamentally has merit (when you get it from nonbiased places; for example Mystery never inserted standard TRP misogynism and/or politics into his game talk) TRP takes a lot these concepts and corrupts them.

This is because TRP primarily exists to help men who have low self-worth to rationalize themselves. This is why these people encourage cheating and emotional neglect and then crying about how "all women are evil" when they get cheated on.

Title	questions about a post on trp
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Date	April 12, 2014 2:05 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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