This is a bit of an interesting blue->red jealousy story.

So, I've soft nexted this girl for a while since I ended up acting like a chode the last time I saw her. To fix it, I cut communication. I haven't always been 100% on top of my game with her. But, there was a time that she really wanted me.

So it's been about a month. I haven't responded to any of her facebook likes and that menial shit. But tonight my cousin was playing at a bar not too far from her house, so I let her know I was going to be there. I didn't ask her to come, I just said "Hey I'm going to be at X tonight."

Well, this bar had a theme (prohibition era) and I just so happened to find out later via facebook status that she was having a prohibition era house party. (She never replied to my msg). I figured it was a coincidence (since I know she likes that shit/we talked about going to a speakeasy).

I arrive at the bar and her entire house party is there... She's with a guy. I grab her on the shoulder, she stands up, I grab her and cheek kiss. I paid little attention to the guy. Then I went and talked to our mutual friend that I havent seen in ages. (He said to her roommate "talk about trying too hard"--which I assume he was talking about her trying to make me jealous, snuggling up to the guy. Also, someone said 'they're so great together'--jokingly, as if everything she was doing was all a show/forced) I was very loud, and clearly the talk of the town, if you will. Some of her friends were 'tipped off' about me, haha.

Then I headed back outside to chill with the band. Then I went back later in the night just to fuck with her. I sat down next to her and struck up mundane conversation. Her legs were crossed away from the guy she was with, so they were facing me. I asked the guy's name just so I could gain some rapport, so he didn't know if I was just being friendly, and fucked with him too. She never moved her legs from facing me, I touched her casually on the arm & leg, but she gave him "smooches", if you will, while I was talking/yelling to someone else in the party far away. Well, eventually I was about to head outside, and got her betaboy angry. Apparently he wasn't on board with me throwing a party soon. I laughed and mimed some air-smooches toward him on my way back out. (Later her gay friend told me not to fight him [I had no intention, I found this comical, he was the angry one] & told me I was better looking...lol)

I went back in later with our mutual friend to do shots in front of them, but they started to head out. I said goodbye with a cheek kiss to her, and gave her a good ass squeeze. I went to give the dude with her a good ol' bro handshake and he complied. What a nice beta. He even said "nice meeting you" after I did. His attitude of anger changed into acceptance. Cry yourself to sleep snuggle-bunny.

So now, my question is, what the fuck's next? I've clearly affected her so much that she's willing to move her entire party to the bar I said I'd be at, just to make me jealous (which failed). I liked the idea of sending her a txt: "are you auditioning for a soap opera?", but I never actually acknowledged that there was an "issue" between us. I just played it kind of sarcastic, like I haven't seen her in a while and we used to hook up. Well, that's all true. No messages sent so far since. I feel like I could say "good seeing you last night" just to see if that'd stir things up/keep up the sarcasm. But yeah, I don't know whether to prod a bit or do nothing. Or..."good seeing you last night, what a coincidence." That's probably a bit too much, too bitter for my taste. I should just call it what it is: "Glad you came out to see me last night" (in spite of all the jealousy bs she was trying to pull. It's just cocky and true).