She's into really hot kinky shit, and that's mostly why I keep the plate spinning, but she asked last night if we should start dating. My answer was a firm no with the honest admission that I would consider it if we grew closer and I felt more trust, and she was alright with this answer, but I'm wondering if maybe it's not time to move on. She has indicated she wants more. She also has admitted to being previously suicidal. Red flag?